When To Talk About Salary!
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A client called me about a great interview he had earlier in the week. When he told me that they wouldn't pay him enough to make it worthwhile, I asked how he knew. His answer: "Because I asked them what the range was."

I asked why he did that. The question surprised him. "Because I wanted to know ... but don't worry, I first told them that money wasn't the most important thing to me, that I was most interested in the challenges, etc."

This is a common mistake among job seekers. They are naturally worried about compensation, and want to know what the possibilities are. They want to be prepared for offer negotiations. But there are many other ways to find out enough information to satisfy those concerns, such as through networking with people in similar roles at other companies, or friends at the particular company who aren't involved in the hiring decision; and through research in the library and on websites like SalaryExpert.com.

The problem with being the first to bring up compensation with someone in the hiring chain is that just raising the question:

  • Communicates that at some level, money is more important than the job, no matter how you couch the question. (This also projects less confidence than the person who doesn't bring it up, who assumes that compensation will take care of itself.)
  • Makes you less impressive to the interviewer than someone who didn't raise the question; someone who is entirely focused on the job, and what they bring to the table.
  • Weakens your bargaining position.
"Oh, but I said all the right things first."

What does this mean? Do you think I as a hiring manager am not savvy enough to know that you ask every question for a reason? That I don't try to use every piece of information I'm offered, including what questions you ask, to get a fix on what's important to you and whether you are the best possible candidate?

"Don't worry, I didn't ask the hiring manager ... I just asked the HR person."

OK, that's better than asking the hiring manager. But don't you think I will seek input from every person you talked to prior to making a decision on whether to move forward? Or do you assume that the HR person's opinion carries absolutely zero weight?

"But I didn't ask about salary, just other benefits." (eg, paid time off, medical/dental)

Why is that any better? Those benefits are still part of the total compensation package. In fact, that might be worse. As a hiring manager, I can at least understand why someone would be so worried about salary that they ask about it, but to ask about specific benefits? Now I'm wondering whether you are even focused on the right issues, and understand that benefits are a tradeoff for salary. And if it was vacation time you asked about, I might now be worried about whether you are going to be one of those employees who is more focused on their time off than the time on the job, who is always asking to take off at difficult times, who happens to be conveniently sick on periodic Fridays.

"But, wait, by asking early on, I've often been able to find out they couldn't offer me enough to make it worthwhile, and saved us both the time and energy of a pointless interview!"

Perhaps, but how do you know that they couldn't offer you more than what they said? If I were a hiring manager interviewing for a job whose range was $70-100,000, typically I'm going to try to bring in new employees in the lower half of the range, ie, $70-85,000. 90% of offers I make will be under $85,000, but there will sometimes be exceptional candidates to whom I offer $90,000 or even $95,000.

If someone asked me early in the process what the range was, I would likely answer $70-85,000. I don't want the candidate thinking I can offer more, and then bargaining for that higher amount. Plus, I don't want to set things up for them to potentially be disappointed with the offer because they compare their offer to the top of a range I don't expect to offer.

In fact, twice in my years as a hiring manager, I offered a candidate who was a superstar a salary only a few thousand dollars below what I was making! But I never would have even considered revealing that number as a possibility to either a prospective candidate or a recruiter who was interested in sending me candidates - until I interviewed those two candidates, I hadn't considered that amount a possibility myself!

This last point addresses the most fundamental reason never to bring up compensation yourself. You don't want a prospective employer thinking about how much you might cost them until they are convinced they want you on their team. If you've done a great job in the interview of getting deep into their challenges, of establishing how much it's costing them not to have you in that position tomorrow, that you are a great solution to their problems, then they will want to make the best possible offer they can to get you on their team!